Here & Now...

Eid Mubarak 2010 - Part 2

2010-09-30T19:24:00.002+08:00

Hello peeps! How's your Raya celebration so far? As for me, I've stuffed myself silly and is in a quest to lose a few kilos, 5 kg to be exact.... Okay, seriously, even if I starved myself to death, I won't be able to achieve my dream curves especially when it's Scarlett Johansson's perfect figure that I've been salivating at. lol.... Confirm, tinggal angan2 je..... Anyway, as mentioned in my

What A Wonderful Raya!

2010-09-11T20:02:00.007+08:00

It's the second day of Eid Mubarak and I'd like to wish all Muslims, Selamat Hari Raya..... I dunno whether it's the age factor or what, but I feel that Syawal is less significant now as compared to how I welcomed and embraced Ramadhan. Despite the 4 days gastric attacks, I was a bit sad to bid goodbye to Ramadan... Owh well, I think it's definitely the age factor! Nevertheless, we had so

A Bit of This & That......

2010-08-13T15:13:00.001+08:00

I know I’ve kinda neglecting my blog again and in all honesty, I don’t have any excuse except for the fact that I’ve lost the mojo to write a lengthy post, especially when I can have sporadic updates on my daily happenings via FB and Twitter. Furthermore, I can be rest assured that only selected and approved list of friends are able to view my profile. Well, I guess with the advent of Twitter and

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MOMMA!

2010-04-18T23:32:00.001+08:00

I’ve been staring at this space for more than 10 minutes not knowing what to write, although, my heart is overflowing with love and my brain is working overtime remembering all those amazing moments with Mak, but my mind just went ‘kaput’ and now I’m struggling with this syndrome, which they called writer’s block. I doubt I could ever find the right words to tell her how much she means to me, to

BOOOO...

2010-04-12T16:39:00.000+08:00

Isn't the pix above cute???? I can't resist putting it up in my blog as it seems that I'm impossibly the most irresistible person to some beings. Owh...come on.... just spill it! You miss me, eh? But...... I'd rather have 'it' physically rather than virtually coz' I'm very 'the' expressive person. p/s : to those who doesn't get the drift, it's okay coz' it was never meant for you...... ...

A Short Entry after A Long Hiatus....

2010-04-01T20:04:00.001+08:00

I’ve been missing in action and I can’t believe I’ve somewhat abandon this blog of mine, albeit temporarily. The reason for moi being MIA is because I’ve in actual action. In fact, I’ve been extremely occupied with some domestic stuff, endless ‘makan-makan’ session with family, birthday celebrations and most of all some ‘minor’ issues that cropped up recently, which could have been settled in an

MENANTU atau 'HANTU'?........

2010-01-25T23:16:00.002+08:00

How do you like the title of this entry? Funny eh? But if you read the entry below, which I copied & paste from my Kak Ngah's blog, I doubt you'd find it amusing. So, read on..... ********************************************HATISakit kah hati ini? Hanya diri sendiri yang tau akan jawapannya…..Itu pun kalau ikhlas.Kadangkala kita ambil 'kredit' untuk perbuatan orang lain. Walhal ianya

2009 in A Nutshell

2009-12-24T01:53:00.002+08:00

We’re off to the airport in 4 hours time and here I am staring at the screen trying to squeeze some creative juice flowing from this dead-tired mind and body of mine. Since we’re leaving for a 3 weeks holiday at DH’s ‘kampung’, I think this will be my last entry for year 2009 and with lack of sleep, I sincerely hope that you’d excuse those enormous grammar errors and typos in this post.Okay, now

Interesting......

2009-11-20T19:49:00.002+08:00

An email I received a few days ago and I feel apt to share it here..... Anyway, my 9yo niece thinks this 'message' is funny coz' it rhymes...****************************************************************Pesanan dari ustaz kat office gua….. KALAU SUAMI, JIKA SUAMI Kalau suami mula berahsia..Itu tandanya dia tak setiaKalau suami meninggi suaraItu tandanya dia dah ada mak we Kalau suami

My Thoughts.....

2009-10-21T23:10:00.001+08:00

Gosh! I’ve been busy like a bee... what with all those open house invitations, weekend getaway & rendezvous with my lil’ family, endless housechores and above all, DH is at home by dinner time (well, year end is just around the corner, so, DH is not swamped with heavy workloads that usually requires him to be home way past dinner time) and once Areya is fast asleep, I gotta spend wonderful cozy

Menjelang Hari Raya.......

2009-09-15T02:06:00.001+08:00

Of late, I’m truly not inspired to blog.... Not quite know the reason though.... Maybe, it’s because of the fasting month where I’m usually a bit ‘pancit’ by mid afternoon and for someone who has a history of bad gastric and stomach ulcer problem, it can be pretty tough to survive in the month of Ramadhan. Or maybe it gotta do with that certain someone who’s bookmark my blog and responded in a

Maid Oh Maid.........

2009-09-08T17:15:00.003+08:00

So, Indonesian maids here are entitled for a one day off a week. Good for them....... because I sincerely feel that they truly deserve a day rest after having to work round the clock 24/7, 365 days a year.It’s hard work okay! Trust me!!!! Especially when you are a SAHM or WAHM with no domestic helper but one super hyper toddler at home. Thus, come weekends and in order for me to be a good mommy,

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2009-08-10T19:42:00.002+08:00

*ROTFLHAO*Thank you, thank you so much for adding some flavor into my life.....

A(H1N1), A Manmade Virus?

2009-08-08T00:21:00.002+08:00

I wrote in my other blog about the concern I have pertaining to this recent pandemic. It’s getting scarier and scarier each day with the increase number of fatalities in our country where the disease death toll now stands at 14 as of today. Thus, leave us with no choice but to self-quarantine ourselves most of the time and only make occasional trip to shopping mall before the crowd starts to

Wedding Bells

2009-08-06T22:12:00.005+08:00

My beautiful & gorgeous niece, Syahirah, is getting married this weekend. So, this is gonna be an open letter for her as a written proof of our love to her.Kak Ya, I am extremely happy for you but at the same time, it’s just hard for me to believe that the little chubby and fickle-minded girl I once knew is all grown up and has decided to take her current relationship

Beyond Words.....

2009-07-29T14:33:00.003+08:00

“People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your

Awesome Weekends!

2009-07-01T16:13:00.009+08:00

I promised my nieces, Nana & Syahirah that I’ll post an entry on our recent rendezvous at Rebung. And that was like.......2 weekends ago!The reason for this family gathering is to welcome Nana and Haziq back from Moscow and Liverpool, respectively. Since, both of them were heavily salivating for some local fares (after ONLY a year abroad), Rebung is deemed appropriate for them to... well.....

Wanna Know What Pathetic Is.....?

2009-06-24T00:32:00.003+08:00

Well.......here are the definition from Merriam-Webster Dictionary:- 1. Having a capacity to move one to either compassionate or contemptuous pity2. Marked by sorrow or melancholy3. Pitifully inferior or inadequate4. Absurd or laughable To me, pathetic is when you’re given the opportunity to thrash things out face-to-face but decided to go all mute, meek, docile, amenable,

Never say 'Never' Again.....

2009-06-08T01:20:00.003+08:00

Once, not too long ago, I thought I could never bring myself to forgive this particular ‘someone’, let alone to restore the tattered and what I term as ‘beyond repair’ kinda friendship.But I supposed, one can’t be too darn confident or arrogant with their words coz’ sometimes, one would need to swallow one’s word. Furthermore, I believe that things happen for a reason and it could also be a

Hmmmmmm..... Life Is One Interesting Journey....

2009-05-26T00:59:00.007+08:00

The other day, Kak Ngah was telling me about how daughter-in-laws need to ‘mendoakan’ their MILs first before their very own mothers (of course after those ‘doa’ for our Prophet Muhammad pbuh and our husbands) in the daily prayers.I was caught by surprised with the statement. Apparently, it was part of the script in the recent Malay drama titled ‘Restu Mertua’ that was aired a few Saturdays ago

My Full of 'Cobwebs' Blog

2009-04-17T17:30:00.006+08:00

I’ve been neglecting this blog and as a proof, please take a peek at my archive. 1 post per month? What an unproductive number of posts huh?Anyway, here I am again trying very hard to kick-start my brain cells, so, I could aptly pen down my thoughts and observations without being judgmental, over-emotional and offensive.As much as I detest the idea of having to admit to the fact that I

What's Happiness To You?

2009-03-16T19:28:00.005+08:00

I am blessed. So far, Life has been wonderful. I'm happy. And No, it's not like extraordinarily happy but it's suffice to say, I live the normal happy life with the ups and downs, a lil' misunderstandings and fights every now and then with DH but still I'm happy for what I have. I've a lovely, gorgeous, cheeky and bright daughter who makes my life upside down complete. Puke if you want to

An Entry with No Title....

2009-02-20T22:40:00.002+08:00

Okay..... I had this one rather very spontaneous yet hilarious conversation with my mom recently that prompted me to analyse, recapitulate previous conversations that I had with my girl & guy friends on relationships especially on those devastating and miserable moments, while vigorously do some jiggling at the rusty tomb of my ever diminishing memory on friends’ life experience and of course my

TAG : The Pink Sisterhood

2009-01-15T14:15:00.003+08:00

I was tagged by Juan nearly a month ago and I know I am way, waaaaaayyyyyyy late to tag anyone since Breast Cancer Awareness Month is usually held in the month of October.But as they say, 'it's better late than never' and I, for one believe that any piece of informative news should be shared and disseminated. I trust, most of you, my fellow bloggers and readers are well-equipped with facts,

Marry Someone Who Loves You More Than You Love Him???

2008-12-12T15:22:00.004+08:00

A very very long time ago (yeah! it's THAT long), I once overheard my elder sisters’ conversation on love & men... and that we should only marry someone who loves us more than we love them. As I gradually made my way to secondary school and later on, the uni days and rat-race world, this phrase was chanted day in day out by my other girlfriends.At that point of time, it sounds very sensible and

Why.... Oh!... Why....

2008-12-09T14:58:00.005+08:00

....do I have to fall sick when I finally achieved my ideal weight aka pre-pregnancy weight?3 weeks ago, I was at my pre-pregnancy weight...... THE ideal weight...... I bragged a lil' about this achievement to my sisters ..... Mak as usual is concerned about me trying very hard to lose that extra 2 kg and when I told her that I finally got rid of that extra kilos, her only response to me was, "

I'm Baffled!

2008-11-21T00:22:00.002+08:00

Wanna know why?Visit this blog and see for yourself.....Apparently some people can actually spend their time blog-hopping not to get acquainted with the bloggers or make new friends or update oneself with relevant issues..... but it’s purely for the fun of publicly belittling both the content of the blogs and the blogs owners ....As a blogger, I exercise the ‘straight forward’ method. If I

The Value of $$$$...

2008-11-06T01:03:00.003+08:00

"Show Me the Money" I was on the phone with one of my nephews, Haziq (who’s currently in Liverpool to complete his bachelor degree), a few nights ago. Btw, Haziq left for Liverpool a week before Raya this year and has settled down quite well there. As an aunt, I make it a point to call my ‘anak buahs’ who’re far away from home every 2 weeks, at least.So, during our recent conversation, Haziq was

It's 'Spring Cleaning' Time...

2008-10-24T01:40:00.003+08:00

After some self-reflection moments, I've decided to do a serious 'spring cleaning' in my life. Another decision has been made and I believe it's for the best, I mean for me, myself and I and my lil' family of course. It's tough, I assure you but I gotta do what I gotta do..In life, one need to move on. To start a new life without having to think and worry about other people who're beyond help.

2008-10-21T22:50:00.010+08:00

Thursday October 9, 2008Why do men take second wives?A WRITER'S LIFE By DINA ZAMAN................................................................................................................................................Polygamy has nothing to do with culture or religion. Men, and women too, cheat because they can.WHEN a male friend told me he planned on taking a second wife, all I could do

It's All About Choices and Decisions...

2008-10-20T14:15:00.008+08:00

Life is all about choices and the decisions we make, isn't it? It's either you choose to live or to die.... to lead a blissful life or to forever be in a miserable self-pitying situation .... to further acquire knowledges or to simply be contented with the existing one ...... to ask for advise and guidance or to act as 'bodoh sombong' ...... to open one's heart for new love or to allow it shut

I Dream of PERRY.....

2008-10-15T20:56:00.006+08:00

I am never a handbag person but somehow I'm kinda drawn to this bag, which is apparently the latest collection and a must-have from Anya Hindmarch..... and with a price tag of slightly above RM5k, I guess...... I have to keep on dreaming.....Anyway, the size of this gorgeous bag is just right for me to chuck in Areya's essentials as well during our outing. *wink*wink*hint*hint* to DH....

Endless Raya Celebrations........

2008-10-13T12:40:00.009+08:00

Update : I just do not know what's wrong with all the paragraphing..... so sorry if you find difficulties in reading this entry.... ....is equivalent to more & more open house invites and scrumptious food to goble down, which translate to explosives love handles.... We've been making several trips within KL/Selangor during the last 2 weekends due to the invitations received from DH's

"Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind" - BUDDHA

2008-09-22T12:38:00.012+08:00

As a human, somehow or rather we're bound to be envious of others. Me for instance have a list to it; I envy others writing abilities, I am sometimes envious of DH's quick thinking and people skills, oohh..... I envy my sis, Kak Net for being a successful career woman but never neglects her role as a daughter, I envy my girlfren, KO for her cheekiness and spontaneity and for always having the

Calling all Fashionistas!!!!!

2008-09-08T21:55:00.001+08:00

This is an extremely overdue post. I promised a very dear friend, May that I'll do a post about her current stint with CloveTwo and YES! she's one gorgeous, attractive and smart Phatmama.Being a fashionista and shopahalic herself (oopsss!), she has been entrusted by Clove Two to write on anything and everything about Fashion & Beauty, an area which she excels at...LOL (be prepared to wear comfy

YET.....

2008-07-18T14:15:00.004+08:00

....another friend’s marriage dissolved in divorce. Truth be told, I was not shocked when M told me in vague details that SA is getting a divorce. But, what startled me was the fact that it was SA who showed her ex the door. I wouldn’t wanna elaborate more on this intense issue but I believe that this may be the best thing for her to do right now. Yup! Dumped that idiot….. Although, SA is not one

I salute you, DSAI....

2008-07-15T21:57:00.013+08:00

Need I say more?I bet those of you who watched the live debate between DSAI and our Minister of Information were rendered speechless with the not-so-clever remarks from the Minister and don't get me started with his factless statements. As a person with a corporate finance background and some knowledge on what's happening in this country, DH kept on clicking his tongue at every single silly

Yeah! That's Right....

2008-05-29T21:33:00.002+08:00

Blame everyone but yourself! Well, I’ve learned this is the easiest way out for some people rather than trying to evaluate the situation thoroughly and carefully. More often than not, we always summed up any difficult situations or predicaments by putting the blame to everybody, somebody, anybody..... but ourselves. Why? Because we thought we’d be guilt-free by doing just that and by pushing

Of friend and her happiness

2008-05-26T00:19:00.003+08:00

A few days back, a good friend of mine, AM, whom I’ve known since secondary school rang me up and wanted to do tea with me as she apparently has something important to share with me and sounded a lil’ bit desperate.So, today (oppsss…. It’s already Monday as I was typing this entry) we had our date and it’s wonderful to be able to hook up with a dear friend for coffee while simultaneously sharing

The day when....

2008-05-25T21:00:00.003+08:00

My jaw hurts…My tummy aches….Tears running down my cheek….And NO! I am not in pain and neither am I sad……Instead, I am laughing so so hard (until the lappie is shaking vigorously) and am about to roll on the floor (if not because of this lappie, I tell ya!) with news so hilarious if not comical.My oh! My….Darling, don’t you think it’s pointless putting on airs and graces with us when the reality

My Phenomenal Discovery...

2008-05-10T21:37:00.008+08:00

Wahhhhh! I didn't know that Internet Technologies can be so super 'canggih' and me being a not so IT savvy am so super duper happy, as a result to what I've just discovered.To those seasoned bloggers out there, you might laughed at me since what I've just unearthed less than 10 minutes ago was in fact quite ancient to them.... but to me it's definitely a momentous discovery that calls for a

My head's spinning with distressing news...

2008-05-08T22:34:00.003+08:00

I seldom read the MSM newspaper and i'm pretty sure most of you know the reason behind it. What's the point of reading news that only reflected the 'not-so-smart' actions and decisions from our truly 'efficient' government.But today, I decided not to flip open the laptop and instead opted to do some readings as my princess is fast asleep since 7.30pm. I've 'khatam' the Mother & Baby, May issue

Life's Comedy

2008-04-24T23:16:00.003+08:00

It's heartbreaking when someone who's rather close to you misconstrued your intention and jumped into a conclusion based on what he/she's looking at or bank on other people words instead of asking the said person directly.Individuals are one unique creatures. We operate differently, we do not think alike, we have different perspectives although occasionally there are some issues where we might

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM - PART 2

2008-04-24T11:31:00.004+08:00

We celebrated mak's birthday 2 nights in a row.The first night, which was on her birthday was an unplanned event where we took Mak here for dinner. Apparently, this place is (yet) her another favourite dining spot.Mak with two of her cucus - Yaya jiejie & AreyaThe following birthday dinner was hosted by my dear brother at one of the club. Mak was ecstatic (although, she appeared to be

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM!!!!

2008-04-18T09:38:00.001+08:00

Today is Mak’s 69th birthday. I would like to wish her more than a wonderful birthday coz’ she truly deserves only the best as my mom is the BESTEST mom in this whole wide world (although we might not be the best of children to her). Mak, you have given so much of yourself to us all and I wanted you to know how much I truly appreciate what you’ve given me and I am where I am today

What Is Politics?

2008-04-17T10:40:00.006+08:00

This is hilarious...... and dead right in our Malaysia Bolehland, no?A little boy goes to his dad and asks, "What is politics?"Dad says, "Well son, let me try to explain it this way: I'm the breadwinner of the family, so let's call me capitalism. Your Mom, she's the administrator of the money, so we'll call her the Government. We're here to take care of your needs, so we'll call you the people.

2008-04-16T14:30:00.002+08:00

Hahaa.... This is cool!!! Quite accurate though.... Guess, I 'll get DH to look at this later....What Anis MeansYou are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality.You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people.You also have a very active imagination.

'They Who Give Have All Things; They Who Withold Have Nothing' - Indian Proverb

2008-04-14T10:43:00.007+08:00

I am blessed.... Being one of the youngest in the family sometimes has it privileges.... I gotta enjoy free stuffs from my elder sisters and the occasionally hand-me-downs branded handbags.... Owh! my lil' darling seems to get her fair share too from the ever generous aunties and she is lavished with jammies, plush toys and books from Leap Frog for LittleTouch LeapPad system (one of the

What Is Left Unsaid...

2008-04-01T15:08:00.004+08:00

In the past, there was TRUST… It was unconsciously BETRAYED and never discussed… Before, there's HOPE…. But it’s severely CRUSHED and we walk a tightrope… Once, our life were surrounded with LOVE and Laughter Now, only PAIN that lingers…… Will FAITH mend our broken hearts? Or it’s just simply too much to ask… But I trust that the TRUTH will set us free… Or maybe we wanna

Lessons from The Eagle

2008-03-28T16:42:00.004+08:00

Looking at the above, I feel so at peace, free and liberated. I wish I could catch a glimpse of a live eagle soaring up above the sky. I bet I’d be amazed (note : imagine a mouth wide open alternating with a cricket sounds that came from the same mouth). It must have been a truly majestic view. I was made to understand that an eagle knows when a storm is approaching long before it breaks

GOTCHA!!!

2008-03-18T12:09:00.003+08:00

Initially, I planned to elaborate some of the points from my recent posting, as I feel it is critical for me to seek answers to the uncertainties that seems to run amok in my mind. My wise husband advised me to turn to ALLAH swt for answer and to not be emotional and over-reacting. So, to cut the story short..... on the same day that particular post of mine was published, I got my answers.

I Know that You Know Mr. I-Don’t-Know

2008-03-12T14:16:00.005+08:00

Hurrayyy!!!! Well Done Malaysians! BN under the leadership of the Great Imam Hadhari for the first time in history has been denied two-thirds majority in the recent election… So, what did Pak Lah has to say about BN heavy losses? Well, I am pretty sure, you guys had already predicted of what he would be saying on that fateful morning huh? While glued to the tele and witnessing the fall of BN on

My Random Thoughts

2008-03-05T11:01:00.005+08:00

There are so many things going on around me and I planned to put it all (the interesting pieces only la) in writing here BUT so little time that I have..... Ok, I better jot down things now before I totally shrink my brain any further...1/ I sooooo wanna go to Celine Dion Taking Chances World Tour Concert 2008 this April... Have to ask hubby to sponsor me the ticket....hmmm.... baby, can i have

Yippee.... My partner-in-crime is back too!!!!

2008-02-12T15:55:00.001+08:00

Okay! So my beloved sista, Kak Long is also back from Mekah and she is soooooo..like slim-mlim cam anak dara okay!!! Truth be told, at a very very prime age of 52, she is way too gorgeous, attractive and very pleasant to look at, in other words, ‘tenang je biler nengok muka kak long’ (ish… at this very moment, I can visualise my kak long’s senyum- senyum gatal at me). At each occasion when I

My mom is back!!!! Yoohooo!!!!

2008-02-04T14:14:00.000+08:00

Syukur Alhamdulillah… Mak and Kak Long are now back from their magnificent journey in the holy land of Mecca and Madinah. For a 70 year old woman, mak did a great job and accomplished her second journey without much hiccups (physically) except for a slight increase in her sugar level and her blood pressure. She looks well and healthy to me despite her on and off coughing, which will usually

Dreary & Teary Mood

2007-12-10T16:40:00.000+08:00

Hubby is back from his business trip yesterday and lil’ areya ‘mengada-ngada’ness has enormously amplified now more than ever, however, I shall elaborate further on our lil’ darling’s antics and tricks (especially when daddy is around) in my other blog. At this very moment, I just wanted to get rid of this sad and dreary mood, which has been enveloping me since last night. …Ya..ya… I know… I

Our First and Most Likely, Our Last!!!

2007-12-04T10:38:00.000+08:00

Last Saturday, both Kak Net and me took our beloved mom and Kak Long for a Dinner Cruise at our new so-called prestigious federal administrative centre that have 3 bridges spanning a 650ha man-made lake (i am so confused, they built an artificial lake followed by 3 bridges instead of just retaining the original landscape???...hmmmm....how much does it cost again??). Anyway, back to our very, very

"The Weak Can Never Forgive. Forgiveness is the Attribute of The Strong" - Mahatma Gandhi

2007-11-19T14:04:00.000+08:00

In my salad days when my blood were somewhat easily boiled to the max (not literally saying! ;)) with condemnatory, disparaging or derogatory remarks people made against me, my usual reaction (after the boiling blood returns to its normal temperature lah) were to prepare myself for a confrontation with the accuser. During the heated arguments (wah! like real ni....) I always, ALWAYS (note the

doctors & flying carpet

2006-04-21T11:22:00.000+08:00

am not feeling well these past few days and went to d clinic yesterday... actually i resent the idea of seeing doctors.. as they usually asked the standard questions like 'sakit apa?' or 'kenapa ni?'... if i know what kind of sickness i'm having i won't bother to see u, stupid moron... i usually said in my heart... so far in my life there's only 3 doctors whom i am comfortable with and the best

am i cursed?

2006-04-18T21:05:00.000+08:00

rushing back home from office as i need to send my niece for her kumon class...thank god i m against the traffic & driving is a breeze.... as i was about to reach home (like 300m away), my elder sister called saying that she's already at the centrepoint with my niece and mom ...zoom... screettttt.... & a car honking at me as i made an illegal u-turn...speed..speed...speed to centrepoint as i need

what a day!!!

2006-04-18T15:57:00.000+08:00

i am not a superstitious person but sometimes i do follow my instincts... it happened to me yesterday where i just have this gut feeling that i''ll be slapped with parking summon from MPPJ officers.... yet again, i refused to follow my so-called 'tru calling' gift and didn't display the parking ticket at the windsreen... hey! i didn't get a single summon for d last 2 weeks at this particular hour

Finally!!!

2006-04-17T16:00:00.000+08:00

yeah! i finally have my own blog... hv put it on hold for ages.. always wonder how does one operates a blog, it looked very challenging and not to mention intricate at first... for me, a pc is meant for word, excel, powerpoint and emailing..gosh how pathetic i was before.... the real reason behind all this was actually my ignorance to explore this wonderful creation... or maybe it's all about